
Preacher Harder fought a more than thirty year battle after arriving in
In spite of all those efforts, even in that seemingly isolated village of the 1930’s and 1940’s when I grew up, Yarrow became the graveyard of that way of life. In retrospect it seems to me that Preacher Harder in his search for a congenial congregation after arrival in Canada ought to have associated himself with the Holdeman Mennonites, a sect founded by John Holdeman in the State of Ohio in the mid-nineteenth century, about at the same time as our Mennonite Brethren sect separated from the mainstream Mennonite Church in Russia. When I visited my Holdeman cousins in
The book is A Generation of Vigilance, the biography of Johannes Harder and his wife Tina, written by retired
The reason for that ambivalence lies in the differences between my family’s personal and church relationships and those of so many others who have written generally positive histories and memoirs about those early Yarrow days and the heyday of the Mennonite Brethren Church there under Harder’s leadership. I grew up and went to school with the two oldest of Harder’s sons and experienced his invasive influence on our family. I remember him as a stern but approachable gentleman of the old school. I was not one of his fans. Still, any resentment I may have had about the treatment of my parents by the church in the Harder days has never stayed with me. Harder and his fellows in the church were no more able then to accept the changing culture, than I am able to accept much of today’s overly permissive culture.
Those differences went back many years. Firstly, my father’s family still had German citizenship after several generations in
Until my reading of Vigilance I had never made myself familiar with the detailed and restrictive rules and regulations insisted on by Harder and the closed committee he led for those who wished to maintain
We moved into our new 14’x20’ shack on the 4 acre Yarrow farm at the dyke in 1934, starting bare bones scrambling for food and shelter in the depths of the Great Depression. The advantages of our “great American dream” experience, already lost in five short years, left us as “poor white trash” among our contemporaries of the closed religious society of Depression Yarrow. Many of the more recent CPR and MCC sponsored immigrants who found their way to Yarrow during this period were hungrier, in the sense that they were more anxious to recover the lost glories of their pre-revolutionary villages in
Most Yarrow adults in that time had no wish to be absorbed in the surrounding English-Canadian culture. Even Yarrow’s geography conspired to isolate its closed society from the surrounding community. The closed triangle created by the Sumas prairie, the BC Electric Railway tracks and the
Some of the new settlers had natural advantages, though I never heard any of our family concede even at their lowest ebb, that some of their neighbours might be their “betters” with both physical and intellectual advantages that Mom and Dad had never acquired. Some had been proud owners of large estates in
Above all, though, almost all the villagers had an advantage the Nickels by now could not aspire to. That was the advantage of being unified in their families and in their church relationships. There was a great deal of hypocrisy, though no greater than that found in other social groupings, but publicly the large majority of the villagers accepted the sanctions of the church without question and the church took them to its bosom. Such was not the case with the Nickels. Though women could be dominant in the privacy of the home, they were “untertan” ruled by their husbands, in public. Families worked as units and children of large families most often put all their work and earnings in the family pot. Such togetherness did not work for us even though my oldest brother and sister helped Mom and Dad keep bread on the table.
Some five years after completing that memoir I wasted my time on a series of short stories about a fictional town, most of which turned out as poorly disguised autobiographical experiences. One I called A Tale About Differences: A story about
Years of attempted mediation by the preacher and other elders soon followed. The episodes of argument and prayer in that Depression shack when I was ten or eleven did more to turn me against religion than the rational influences of college training. The preacher rarely came alone. With one or two of the senior elders he often arrived at our small spread after we completed our evening chores. They invariably greeted me as fond uncles and talked to my parents most congenially; a neighbourly call to pass the time of day. They were never in a hurry in those days but we all knew why they were there.
During those visits, Mother sent me up the ladder to my attic bed as soon as she could and told me to go to sleep. When my rattling around stopped, what amounted to an attempted exorcism began. I never slept and the walls and attic floor were thin shiplap. The exact words, which by then had switched to the more formal High German of their Bible, were not all understandable but I knew exactly what was going on from scraping chairs and voice modulations. The preacher gently work his way around to Bible readings at the table and meditations. He always ended by relating those readings to the problem between my parents. Invariably a dialogue with my mother followed. Mother lacked formal education except for a few elementary grades of the church school in the old country. In spite of that handicap years of reading and thinking made her what I consider an exceptional Bible scholar for the times.
“Listen to the words of the Apostle,” Brother Martel intoned in his best pulpit manner. He was particularly fond of quoting from the fourteenth chapter of Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians. In his best High German and all the sonorous majesty he could muster, Martel read, “Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.”
The story of the Harders, their backgrounds and their troubles and migrations after the Russian Revolution is by now a familiar one. Except for their generational connection to the Mennonite preaching ministry, their story is not unique. Nor is the story of their poverty stricken beginnings in Yarrow. It was common to many through the whole of the Depression era, except for the demands of Harder’s devotion to preaching and church leadership. Nevertheless, for those efforts the Harders were often rewarded when “God provided” in the form of gifts from grateful church members. Regehr also describes such hardships as cycling to the hop fields and the need to work away from home. That was true of many of the villagers. For many years my own father started out early in the morning after farm chores to ride his two-wheeler along the gravel mountain road to Vedder Crossing and on to the foot of Promontory Hill to work a full day at Bowman’s Sawmill, then back home for more chores, all the while suffering from a debilitating asthma condition. All able hands got as much year-round work as they could at the hop yards either on Sumas Prairie or at
The religious governance instituted by Preacher Harder was another matter. From my very first memory of Sunday school experiences at the MB Church I had difficulty accepting the biblical mythology as presented in the church basement by Petrus Martens, one of the many preachers in residence who taught there when I was around seven. Except for a long period of rationalized association with the
Generally speaking, I found the Harder story sad. In the end the preacher turned out to be more adaptable than his wife to the integration of his church and his people into the mainstream Canadian culture. Preacher Harder died too young and I cannot help but think that the emotional effect of his failure to stop the Canadianization of his church and his children had something to do with his deteriorating health. The absence of any contribution to his parents’ story from my one-time elementary school classmate, Siegfried Harder, called Fred in the book, is especially noticeable. Of the older boys when I knew them so long ago, I thought him the most like, and the most likely to emulate his father in his evangelical zeal.
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